Sunday, September 28, 2014

A Strange Assortment of Disney Flicks

I want to try to do something more goofy and lighthearted in between putting out serious contemplative material. And, what's more and lighthearted than Disney? Granted, some of my movie choices, or the content within these movies, can be serious, and that is part of my reason for putting that movie on this list. However, when it comes down to it, I have just enjoyed watching Disney movies since my earliest childhood days and I wanted to share my reasons for why these 5 movies (in no particular order) are my favorites.

P.S.-Note that most, if not all of these choices, are not the most popular, not the most music oriented, and certainly contain a very minimal amount of princesses. So, this list will look a little different than what you might expect a Top Disney Movies list to look like.

Robin Hood



As the Nostalgia Critic noted in his Disneycember review of this movie, most kids were introduced to the legend of Robin Hood through this version. I count myself among that number who first heard of the legendary outlaw through Disney.

This is one of the those Disney movies that the boys can really dig without having to feel embarassed to admit they're watching Disney (unlike the princess movies). Naturally, there's plenty of archery , romance, and swordplay but maybe even moreso there's plenty of comedy. I get a kick out of just thinking of scenes like Robin Hood and Little John dressing as fortune tellers, or Little John pretending to be a Duke and befriending Prince John, or Hiss and Prince John arguing.

It was great fun seeing these animal characters move and act like normal humans, and yet are given moments and distinctions that correspond with their animal type (the elephants use their noses to trumpet, Prince John who is royalty is a lion, etc.). It didn't distract me that these were animals portraying people, in fact, I think that was what drew me in as a kid and remains part of the nostalgic appeal of this movie.

While Robin Hood is an enjoyable lead, Little John practically steals the show between the character's dialogue and its delivery from Phil Harris. Also, this is the one of the few movies I recall Disney actually showing a church and throwing moral theology into the storyline. Friar Tuck as a character, his reaction to the wickedness of the Sheriff and Prince John, and Robin Hood's charity are all positive examples of good morality fighting selfish greed (even including when Friar Tuck goes berserk on the Sheriff). In the end, even the songs are catchy and are nostalgic staples of my childhood. Robin Hood is just overall fun.

The Sword in the Stone



While the animation style and the overall story are not high on the epic quality scale by Disney standards, it's the characters that make this movie. The character of Merlin as a grumpy, clutzy, yet wizened wizard is hilarious, as is his interaction with his talking owl Archimedes. I can overlook the constant changes in Wart's (i.e. young King Arthur's) voice because he is the most identifiable character in the movie. I identify with Wart not just because I'm a boy but, because of his adventures with Merlin, Wart is learning many things and his reactions often reflect my reactions (especially when I was little).

I like Merlin's little references here and there to what the future (which is our present or past history) will be like and how it blows Wart's mind. The wizards duel between Merlin and Mim is great fun and it's cool to see Merlin win using wit and brains to overcome Mim's cheating ways. The different moments when Merlin changes himself and Wart into animals are wonderful because they are educational as well as entertaining (though the biggest lessons I learned were that a big fish likes to eat little fish and girls can be annoying when they flirt with their crush). It's the humor and character interactions that make The Sword in the Stone so good to me.

Fantasia



I already explained why I like this movie in my Top 23 movies series, so I'll just note why it's one of my Top 5 Disney movies. This feels like one of Disney's most mature and artsy releases. It feels like watching high art, between the professional classical orchestra and the top notch drawings in each of the vignettes. Fantasia goes through a wide variety of tones and emotions, from dark to light, scary to peaceful, funny to serious.

The Adventures of Ichabod and Mr. Toad



As for the first half of the movie, The Wind in the Willows, it's enjoyable enough. The side characters, like Mole and Rat and the Horse, are very funny and given some great lines. The climactic scene in Toad Hall is thrilling too. It's the second half about Sleepy Hollow that I enjoy most in this movie.

First, Bing Crosby's narration is superb, as are his singing bits. He has a great voice for storytelling, especially when the story is as outlandish, charming, and terrifying as this one. Second, this story makes the main cast of characters simultaneously likable and despicable, making it confusing as to who to root for. Ichabod is a victim yet incredibly greedy, Brom is the town hero yet arrogant, and Katrina is pretty but vain. I like that complexity.

Not to mention, Ichabod's trip through Sleepy Hollow and the encounter with the Headless Horsemen is very horrifying. It's one of those classic childhood moments of fright that stick with me even today. The tone for this climactic encounter is set even before Ichabod arrives in the hollow, back when Brom sings the song about the Horseman. From that song onward, the goofy love triangle quickly becomes a faded memory, due to the atmosphere that the filmmakers, from the artists to the sound effects to the musicians, create. The Adventures of Ichabod and Mr. Toad has a lot of emotional range and complexity for a kid's movie.

The Hunchback of Notre Dame



Where to begin with this movie? This movie utilizes several elements that I liked about previous movies on this list. This is one of Disney's most mature and dark releases, one of its major settings is a church, and it includes ideas of moral theology. I think the songs are some of the best parts of the movie. Not just because of how well they are sung (the music is beautiful), but also because the lyrics reflect incredible ideas and character conflict.

At the end of Bells of Notre Dame, Clopin asks "Who is the monster and who is the man?", which really translates to "Is a person a monstrosity because of their appearance or because of their actions?". In Out There, Quasimodo sings "If I was in their skin, I'd treasure every instant out there" and "Just one day, and then I swear I'd be content with my share", telling the audience to appreciate the beautiful things in the world and to not take our freedom and our surroundings for granted. In God Help the Outcast, we hear Esmarelda sing a humble prayer to beg for aid for her people while others, like Biblical Pharisees, pretend to be pious while selfishly asking for things of vanity. Esmeralda even sings "I thought we all were children of God", marking that all of us are creations from God and that even the poorest and most desperate humans have the same dignity as non-outcasts. In Hellfire, we see Judge Frollo struggle between his pious devotion to God and the sexual temptations he feels towards Esmarelda. Even though Frollo, the symbol of religious piety, is the villain, we still get good characters like the Archdeacon, Quasimodo, and even Esmarelda as a counterbalance so that the audience can see what the dangers are of extremist-type devotion and how a person can truly live out a life of charity.

The artistry is beautiful. Not just the Cathedral of Notre Dame (which is gorgeous to see in such intricate detail), but the whole town of Paris and its citizenry provide a wonderful look back in time. This movie has stuff for both adults and kids, which should be how a family friendly movie is done (I didn't even realize the names of the male gargoyles were references to the author of the Hunchback of Notre Dame book until rewatching it a couple years ago). The Hunchback of Notre Dame is an underrated gem, especially because of the great music.

Sunday, September 21, 2014

Being A Model of Manhood

Side note: So my computer is weird and due to complications between the blog site and my computer/ movie maker, I cannot post this article as a Vlog like I originally intended. So, for today, I will just put it down as a normal blog post and hopefully have a video blog post on something else next week for you.

I have a quick story to share. Recently I started working in an office at Lindenwood University. One of my new coworkers, after we had gotten past the basic get-to-know-you stage, sat down at my desk a couple of weeks ago. She pulls out her phone with a picture of a friend and said "Do you think she's pretty?". I was kind of caught off guard, being in the middle of work and everything, but the woman in the picture was pretty so I replied quietly "Yeah". So my coworker kind of explained things about her friend and that this friend had been dealing with a lot of jerk guys lately and that she thought that her friend and I would get along real well. And I think she even said something along the lines of "She just needs to meet a really good guy".

Pictured: A good guy, apparently

All of the sudden, there was this pressure on me because I'm just one man who is supposed to be a model for good, real manhood. Yet, that got me thinking more about the individual man's responsibility to be a model of manhood.

Here's what I mean: I have several friends who are women. Every once and awhile on social media, I'll see a post from one of these friends talking about how a guy, a total stranger, held the door open for them and how shocking that was and the post would read something like "Chivalry's not dead". These posts, however, make me just want to shout "I do that for you all the time!"

The struggle is real
All of the sudden, there's this pride that wells up inside of me that thinks "Okay, have you not noticed the dozens of times that I've done that for you?". It's strange how, in these moments, I want to take all of the credit for being a model of manhood but that moment in my story, in the office, I didn't want to take any of the credit for being the individual embodiment of manhood.

It's important for each and every man to live in such a way that we are true models of good, real manhood.

We hear the stories about how women have to deal with jerks all the time. How all the guys they date are just the wrong guy and they're waiting for the right guy. Those wrong guys, those jerks that they deal with, are not living out their role for what true manhood should look like. This can lead to extreme cases, such as what we see exemplified in the NFL player scandals. We see in our society how women have to go through many struggles trying to find the right guy because of the actions of the many jerks not living up to their full potential of manhood.

Pictured: The guy that's been ruining things for men everywhere since middle school

In my own life, I need to constantly ask myself "What must I do to live out a truly authentic life as a man?". Every day I have that responsibility of living out my role as a model of manhood. I need to treat all of the women in my life with respect and care. I often make jokes at the office about being one of the few guys around and constantly being surrounded by women. It has to be understood that that's all kind teasing so that my actions reflect my respect and care for those women I work with. I have to willingly hold doors open for everyone at all times, even if I don't get credit for it.

When it comes to something like dating, I have first and foremost ask the woman out either in person or at least over the phone if I have not met her in person. I have to be romantic and chivalrous from the first date and throughout the relationship, even if it means doing the cheesy stuff. I have to respect the physical boundaries and pursue this woman I am dating with chastity and purity.

I have to be willing to put up with stuff like this from time to time.

I need to take these actions not just for the women in my life, but for the men as well. What I mean by that is I need to be a model of manhood for the guys around me, from my godson to my brother to my cousins to my friends. Even the generation before me, I have to live in such a way that I show those men that everything they demonstrated and taught to me has actually sunk in.

As I continue this journey of discovering true manhood and how to live that out, I need to seek help from others whenever I need to and I need to look to my own role models of manhood. Naturally, majority of my role models are religious, Catholic men. Primarily, my biggest role model is Jesus Christ because He is THE MAN. As His disciple, I have to live out my life as He asks me to live it, which is not always easy but that is what I'm called to do. All of the saints and disciples that have come before me have left legacies of true manhood.

So, a reminder to myself and all the other guys I know. However much we want to take credit for doing the right things as a guy but don't want the pressure of being a model of manhood all the time, it's important to recognize that the way we live out our lives has an effect on the people around us. We don't necessarily need to take the credit all the time, but we must deal with the pressure by living authentic lives as a man.